My best friend Robb and I have known each other since we were practically embryos. I would literally take a bullet for him and he for me. Now a days people talk all about having “besties” and multiple “best friends”, but I don’t get it. It’s like the bride that has 16 bridesmaids because she doesn’t want to identify any of them as the maid of honor so no one will be mad at her. Inevitably all of them think they are the maid of honor and an all out brawl is on the verge of ensuing.
Someone has to be closer than the others and for me that is Robb. Yet, through all of our years growing up together we rarely had any classes together which drove us nuts. The only exception to this was band and a physics class our junior year. Now band was always great because…well…we didn’t take it seriously, we were still really good, and had fun doing it.
This will come in handy in just a second.
Now, in physics class we were assigned to build a tower out of wood that would hold the most weight possible while falling within the size parameters. Robb and I knew that we would kill this project so we got home and Robb’s dad, Dave, helped us out. We cut and glued a tower that was epic before the word “epic” was cool to say. We knew that we had a good one but wanted to test it. So we decided to take the leg off the riser in band class one day and replace it with our tower. It totally held up the whole section! Boom this is an “A” for sure…we thought.
It wasn’t until we got to class that we realized we had failed to read a key element of the assignment. Not only were there size dimensions, but there were weight dimensions too. So when everyone came in with their balsa wood structures that could have been blown down by a really good sneeze, we knew we were toast. You see ours was not made out of balsa, but of solid oak. Balsa is for sissies if you ask me. Needless to say, neither Robb or I are physicists and we got…well…less than an A on that assignment.
Let me ask you a question, what is your house built on?
I don’t mean you actually physical house but your personal house. Your family. Your life.
What is it built on?
Solomon was a man of great wealth, but it failed him. He was a man with massive power, but it didn’t sustain him. He was a man with many, many, many wives, but it didn’t satisfy him. He had many, many, many girlfriends, but the chase was never intense enough. Solomon had anything and everything a man could want, but he was as empty as any other person on the street. However, the saddest thing about Solomon’s life was that he had the answer within his grasp, but he never wrapped his hands around it. Here’s what he says about what was missing,
“By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established;
through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.”
Solomon’s own words of reflection answer the question for what establishes a solid foundation. Wisdom. God centered, God focused, God produced wisdom. He goes on to say that “wisdom is sweet to your soul; if you find it, there is a future hope for you.” (v 14) This future hope is beyond what the world says you need to be satisfied.
- The world says to applaud when your enemy falls. Wisdom says “do not gloat when your enemy falls; when he stumbles, do not let your heart rejoice.”(v 17)
- The world says to watch your back or someone will cut in on you in life. Wisdom says, “Do not fret because of evil men or be envious of the wicked.” (v 19)
- The world says the only time to work with someone is if it benefits you more. Wisdom says, “do not join with the rebellious, for those two will send sudden destruction upon them.” (v 21)
- The world says that payback is the only way to get even. Wisdom says, “do not say, “I’ll do to him as he has done to me, I’ll pay that man back for what he did.” (v 29)
Following the world’s ways will leave you with burned bridges, a bloody reputation, and a hardened heart because of the callus that forms from being jaded. Wisdom creates a far different picture in your life. In fact Solomon says that “a wise man has great power, and a man of knowledge increases strength.” (v 5) He goes so far as to say that when you follow God’s ways and speak wisdom what you say will be far better received because “an honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.” (v 26)
We must make the daily choice to not give in to the easy temptations of the world that are always a bait and switch. Never once has what the world sold you been anywhere near reality when you take the step into the river of sin. Foolishness is thinking that you will be the exception to the rule. Please don’t kid yourself because sin will ruin your life too. Don’t think your balsa wood life will withstand the rigors of this world, but rather believe that you need a strong foundation in God to not only survive but to thrive.
You may end up failing the world’s test, but you will pass with the flying colors on God’s.