Seeking Wisdom: Proverbs 22 – Are The Rich More Valuable Than The Poor?


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“Rich and poor have this in common;

The Lord is the Maker of them all.”

Proverbs 22:2

 

 

Are rich people more important than poor people?

Does the size of your bank account dictate your worth as a person?

Does more money mean you have a better life?

Should the poor have less influence on the world than the rich?

All of these questions in one form or another swirl in every corner of the globe.  Arguably the divide between the rich and the poor is the greatest humanitarian chasm in our world.  To my US friends, It is important to point out that by the world’s standards even the poor in the United States are rich which should jar us to the core.  However, even within the US the poor and rich live in two different stratospheres it would seem.  We don’t have to look hard to see this truth.

I have never seen the Academy Awards invites the homeless guy begging for change outside the 7/11 to walk the red carpet ahead of Angelina Jolie.  The fact that I can type “Jolie” without a spell check proves that I have seen and know her name without ever physically seeing or knowing her.  But why do I know her better than I know my neighbor from central South Dakota who is a single dad with two young kids and an ex-wife with a criminal record?  The poor are not summoned to congress to talk about their views on the new tax laws.  The poor don’t get invited onto TV shows to talk about the books they wish they could write. The poor aren’t asked to endorse shoes by Nike as they walk around town pushing their stolen Wal-mart shopping cart.

There clearly is a difference in social equality that goes beyond just the bottom line of your checking account.  However there is equality in the eyes of God.  He tells us that regardless of what we make we are all created equal by our Maker.  However, before you read too far into what I’ve said, this is not a rich people bashing session or a poor people pity party.  It is about the responsibility we have, regardless where God has you on the tax bracket, to live your life with integrity, wisdom, and love for Him.  God doesn’t hate rich people and He doesn’t hate the poor, but He is disappointed when we refuse to follow His wisdom for our life especially towards one another.

In Proverbs 22:7, Solomon says that “the rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender” which, whether we like it or not, is 100% true.  The reality is that the society we live in is mostly driven by the influence of those that have succeeded and have therefore been given a position of power.  The manner in which we reward those people for that influence is in the form of money.  Yes there are exceptions to this rule, but for the most part this is the societal norm we’ve ascribed to.  Before this, power was determined by amount of farmland and livestock, but as society progressed money replaced this system and who knows eventually people may be paid in Golden Retriever puppies if that catches on.  However, according to God, with power comes responsibility.

Solomon goes on to say,

“He who oppresses the poor to increase his wealth and he who gives gifts to the rich both come to poverty.” Proverbs 22:16

“Do not exploit the poor because they are poor, and do not crush the needy in court.”  Proverbs 22:22

Historically, the abuse of power has resulted in a fall from power eventually and those that try to buy there favor with the rich only degrade their integrity into a counterfeit existence.  They may drive nicer cars, but they are more poor in spirit than they ever have been.  Rather God says, that “a generous man will himself be blessed, for he shares his food with the poor” (v. 9) and “a good name is more desirable than great riches.” (v. 1)

A rich person does not become poor because they share their wealth.  They become poor because they have sold their soul to stuff and the Life within them slowly becomes bankrupt.  Equally as true is that a poor person isn’t poor because they don’t have money.  Yes, sometimes they are poor because they’ve chosen a habit over work, laziness or dedication, or have sold their soul to anyone and anything, but their true poverty comes from not having their eyes focused on the true Ruler of their life.

A wise person seeks God over anything else in this world.  Independent of a checking account balance, they seek His face in any all decisions while not separating their lives into spiritual and not spiritual categories.

For us this means:

  • Parents we should start speaking wisdom to our children at a very young age so it will grow into their lives early. (v. 6).
  • Spouses, speak words of life into your husband or wife to make their spirit rich. (v.11).
  • Christians, make the decision that God is important enough to be number one in our life so we don’t end up spiritually bankrupt.

Wisdom springs from a spirit humbly submitting to God’s will and content with whatever blessing God may bring.  A posture like that brings us into a completely different spiritual tax bracket and one more valuable than gold.  Love each other well and be rich in the love of God.

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True Confessions Of A First Time Dad: Sometimes You Just Have To Ride In The Cart

Speedy BabyMy son and I went to Target the other day (shocking I know) to get a few things.  It was a typical Thursday outing for us with Aniston at school and 2 hours of times to kill in the wintery Chicago weather.  Normally, we would have gone outside, but since hypothermia didn’t seem to be an attractive option we stayed inside.  Lil’ E was being so good that he didn’t even try to arm rake any of the glass spaghetti jars off the shelves for once!

Let me tell you that is a huge deal.

We had just finished shopping and it was time for check out.  This is a good thing because Easton knows it means we are almost out the door and that he gets to “help me” put the things on the conveyor belt.

Side Note: Doesn’t it always seems when you put things on that belt that they multiply in your cart.  I feel like Mary Poppins pulling stuff out of her bag as I unload.  It just keeps coming!

Anyway, this day we got in line and wouldn’t you know it we got stuck behind Coupony Couperson and her 35 boxes of mac and cheese to go with her 17 cases of Tic Tacs.  We were in for a long haul since Target only opens up 1.5 lanes out of their possibly 71 in the morning.  We were stuck.  It didn’t take long for Easton to be “done” with sitting in cart and started to fuss.  Before it got out of hand I decided to try something.

The fine folks at Target now have front facing, double seated carts for the kids.  Granted it makes you feel like you are pushing a “67 El Camino around the store, but they do drive like butter and the kids love it.  So when Easton started to get antsy I just decided to grab a seat right by him.  Yep, I popped a squat in the little toddler sized booty holder and we chatted.

You should have seen his face…he LOVED it!  He instantly went from fussing to talking about everything on his mind that no one understood but him.  His hands started making signs that made more sense than that weird dude at the Nelson Mandela funeral.  But what was so cool was that he totally relaxed!  We had a great daddy moment while the woman ahead of us checked out the last of her items so she could scurry back home to her Apocalypse bomb shelter and put away her rations.

This spoke to me on a couple different levels and no I’m not becoming a couponer.

First, it showed me how important it is to be present with your kids.  We all see parents that will ignore their kids while they text their girlfriends important things like their high score on Candy Crush.  Some parents will just simply endure their time with their kids until they can get home and turn on the Disney Channel.  Still others will look at their kids as if they are a nuisance and hindrance to their entire existence…as if they were the ones that chose to be born and now have inconvenienced them.

Our kids need us to engage with them and constantly reiterate that they matter.  This doesn’t mean that letting them watch a show from time to time is bad or that communicating with your friends is sinful, but when your kids have to beg for your attention something is wrong.  I have heard it said time and time again by older parents that they ”wish they would have soaked up the earlier years more because now that they are all grown up it’s different.”  I simply don’t want to be that regretful parent.  To do this we must realize it takes time, energy, and patience, but I believe it will make a world of difference in our kids futures.  The call can wait, but a moment with your kids will fly by never to be had again.

The other thing that this cart conversation did for me was remind me that this is exactly what Jesus did.  No, he didn’t conquer the Target challenge and spend less than $100 dollars, although that may have been a cool miracle to see happen!  It was much more powerful than even that.

Even though He was God Jesus often would get down on the level of the people he was ministering to so that He could relate.  Even beyond being the obvious incarnate God-Man, Jesus,  who become man to live amongst His creation, He went further time and time again to know us.  We see this in places such as when He hung out with kids, dined with sinners, stooped down to help the adulterous women, but one that stands out to me is when He chose his disciples.

One day Jesus ascends a mountain to pray about who He was going to choose to join Him in his close circle of disciples.   After finishing, He calls the 12 together together and then descends the mountain.  It’s here in Luke 6:17 where the good stuff happens as Luke says“He went down with them and stood on a level place.”  Jesus chose not to preach, teach, and minister from a platform, but from the bottom floor.  He chose to see them eyeball to eyeball instead of over the bridge of his elevated nose.  Jesus got on their level so He could know their level and He still does that today.

Our kids need this too.

They need us to hangout with them in the cart and they need us to tell them about God in a way they can understand.  Heck, they need us to tell them about God period!  After all, what good will it do if they know their math facts by they time the reach 4 years old by playing a Fisher Price game on the iPad if they don’t know who the Son of God is!?  Our kids need to see that God is important to us and worth our time to tell them about Him.  We can’t expect the Sunday school teachers or the pastors to do it all.  We are the most influential people in our kid’s lives so  we need to use that influence to tell them about who God is and what He’s done for us.

On their level…eye to eye…life to life.

So give yourself permission to sit in the cart from time to time.  Your kids will love the time with you and it will give you chance to be on their level.  Who knows what you might see and what opportunities God may give you to tell them about Him.

Don’t be afraid of hanging out with your kids…be afraid of the coupon lady that just bought the last case of bottled water.

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Seeking Wisdom: Proverbs 21 – Look Up and Work Hard

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“The horse is made ready

for the day of battle,

but the victory rests with the Lord.” 

- Proverbs 21:31 -

 

If you haven’t noticed, our world is quick to take the credit and slow to take the blame.

Perhaps deferring to Michael Scott of The Office at this point makes sense.  In an episode Michael was caught in a “golden ticket” mistake that cost the fine folks of Dunder Mifflen hundred of thousands of dollars. When asked by his boss, David Wallace, what he though he should do about the situation.  Michael says, “Well David I will be honest with you. I do want the credit without any of the blame.”

That’s us!

If we are completely honest with ourselves, we would always prefer to receive the highest reward possible with the most minimal amount of work.  I mean if there was a way that we could somehow sleep until noon, sit on the couch in our underwear, eat Golden Oreos, while watching reruns of 24 and be rich…we’d do it.  However, that isn’t real life…atleast not one that isn’t the target of a TLC special after your weight balloons to 750 pounds and you have to be cut out of your house.

This life involves effort, hard work, and determination.  Yet somehow our society has become more concerned with getting the high score on Halo and living in our parent’s basement than working hard to make a living and becoming a productive member of society. (v 25)  The very fabric of our world is coming undone with every passing braincell wasted on mindless activities.

God designed us to live differently than that.  He desires us to have integrity in what we do and work hard so that in everything we bring Him glory.  A wise person realizes that life is not handed to them.   Instead a wise person sets out to use the gifts God has given them to the highest possible degree knowing that God will honor and bless those efforts.   Granted, this does not mean that every hard working person is a millionaire or the CEO of  Fortune 500 company.  What it does mean is that when we define our success as  giving glory to God through our efforts no matter who is watching or what the circumstance that is a life worth God’s blessing.

Solomon would say it this way, “he who pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor.” (v 21) This prosperity and honor may not be in the form of BMWs or a body that never gets sick, but it is assured that God is pleased in our obedience and our eternal reward will be great.

Here are some practical applications of this found in Proverbs 21:

  • It’s the wife that isn’t constantly nagging her husband, but patient and loving in her words. (v 9, 19)
  • It’s the husband that keeps his eyes pure and only for his wife. (v 6)
  • It’s the student whose motives follow what God says and not what their heart tells them. (v 2)
  • It’s the employee who strives for the truth even when it may not be the most popular choice. (v 28)

Life is short and has an expiration date known only to God.  We can’t assume that we have forever because our very next breath is not promised.  Don’t waste your life pursuing mindless activities with now purpose and putting little to no effort toward what you do.  Refocus your life’s goal to bringing God glory in all that you do so that wherever you are and whatever you do the focus stays the same.  Doing that will give us renewed determination in all areas of our life and cause our spirit to come alive.

As Christians we are to squeeze every ounce of God given opportunity out of this life. When we come to realize that, we start to see that true wisdom seeks God’s glory first and our needs second.  Anything other than that will always lead to temporary happiness and an unsettled soul longing for more.

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